Years back, Robert and I also collaborated for story about men’s and women’s pubs.

Years back, Robert and I also collaborated for story about men’s and women’s pubs.

Offered our diametrically compared methods to work — him sculpting phrase by sentence, me planning to blurt a messy draft out then return back and tinker — it is magic we didn’t arrive at blows.

Our research ended up vital link being “dating” one another — Robert dragging me personally into homosexual watering holes (he had been careful to choose bars he didn’t regular, into lesbian spots lest I cramp his style), me strutting him. A few weeks ago, he said he’d reread the tale and thought it absolutely was actually bad — small ideas, clunky prose. And seeking it over, I had to concur. Nevertheless, Robert, you had been the most readily useful child date we ever endured. — Alisa Solomon



Let me reveal our final top ten:

1. A kiss as you’re watching Blue Willow to ensure that all the globe would understand.

2. Trading marriage rings over pastrami.

3. A condo with green carpeting and red walls we could make our own that we knew.

5. A bathtub packed with kittens and William meowing to be noticed.

6. Our very first anniversary, I-95, and a tree that continues to grow.

7. A cool February time in Berlin looking for art and coping with snowfall and torn-up combat boots.

8. March 26, 1993: City Hall, domestic partnership, and a stressed bride.

9. The Statue of Liberty — a kiss — and sodium and pepper shakers.

10. My birthday celebration this 12 months once you struggled to light a candle and carry the dessert your self.

Not to mention viewing you as you slept for 2204 evenings. You know what? We nevertheless do.

“Always back at my head. ” Perry



HOW CAN ROBERT DIE — and keep us to alone watch Nixon’s funeral? Well sup­plied with a lot of cigarettes, take-out consumes, and gallons of caffeinated drink, and sharing a loathing that is mutual the instantly sanctified former prez, Robert, their enthusiast Perry, and I also could have possessed a ball along with his send-off. This was the TV event of the season: Five-Presidents-and-First-La­dies-Five and Bob Hope, politicians galore and a bunch of cheap crooks (sometimes one and the same), and the incomparable Spiro Agnew after all, with the possi­ble exceptions of the endless Menendez boys’ courtroom drama and the Tonya & Nancy variety show. Oh, the way the bile might have mingled with unbridled laughter even as we re­acted to all or any that pathetic posturing and cant, and undoubtedly Senator Dole’s Emmy­-worthy breakdown that is little the termination of their eulogy. After which we might have dedicated to the essential material: Barbara Bush’s K­-Marche faux pearls, the Carters’ seeming dyspepsia, and whether Alexis Carrington Colby, oops, I mean Nancy Reagan has received another lift.

Never to dis Tricia’s and Julie’s grief, but­oh that is— please! — their pop music have been preparing their last farewell as an important television comeback unique ever I would have relished it — as yet another great TV event that added to the structure upon which we built and nurtured our friendship since he split quick from the White House back in ’74, and that is exact­ly how Robert and Perry and. For most­ly, in the last 15 years (sufficient reason for Perry additionally working the remote since ’88), Robert and I also viewed tv. One or more times per week and, dependent on the thing that was on, often so much more frequently — we went up to Robert’s (after which Robert and Perry’s) apartment; I became house — you understand, the spot what your location is constantly welcome. And although we chewed over sets from our very own work to most of the present problems and gossip, our main task ended up being tv, plenty of it, the whole thing — the news headlines, Mary Tyler Moore reruns, several years of Dynasty, tennis, fig­ure skating, Murphy Brown, election re­turns, lousy dramas, honors programs, and, most importantly, beauty pageants. We took all of it in, savoring the purest moments — Sue Sim­mons and Al Roker, such a thing from Delta Burke’s delirious Suzanne Sugarbaker, the self-referential brilliance of this final New­hart — and commenting upon, twisting, spitting right straight right back, and otherwise manipulating almost all of the sleep for the very very own function: good con­versation. And possibly it had been simply a reason become together.

The best television memory is of a beauty pageant many years ago, by which a contestant was expected something such as: In one hundred years, who do you might think is going to be considered probably the most influential girl regarding the century that is 20th? That has been precisely the sort of thing we delighted in — and took dead really. After much hysterical laughter over the contestant’s response — Babs Bush (then very First Lady) — we first had to deconstruct issue. Exactly What is the answer that is best to be able to win the contest? Exactly What will be the answer that is right? The absolute most im­pressive? The absolute most clever? Eleanor Roose­velt ended up being the obvious answer — too apparent, we decided. Then Perry popped in with Madonna. We liked that, but nah. We thought difficult and developed Anne Frank. Ooh, they liked that. Impressive option. After which, a short while later on, Robert seemed up, eyes twinkling, and stated defini­tively, “Lucy Ricardo. ” Ever the thoughtful, deliberate journalist, he had worked it through. And, needless to say, he had been appropriate.

However now, lacking Robert, lacking him ter­ribly, we find our alternatives somehow ironic. For while Perry and I also have constantly continued together in a fashion that just might think of Lucy and Ethel or, to change to my medium of expertise — Donna summertime and Barbra Streisand carrying on in Enough Is Enough — Robert, well, Robert really had a lot more than a little bit of Anne Frank in him. Both in their work — as a movie movie theater critic and particularly being a journalist documenting the horrors of AIDS therefore the fight for homosexual legal rights — and their life that is personal first seemed when it comes to good in other people, when it comes to good additionally the feasible. He might be cynical or aggravated (cf. Nixon), but he had been basically a sort, substantial guy whom did their damnedest. And like way too many for the most readily useful TV shows — state, I’ll Fly Away — Robert had been canceled way too soon. Oh, Robert, we never ever reached state, “Hi, Roz! ” — Jim Feldman

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